Agree this is a major pain. It almost makes me think that 19" wheels are really not meant for this car.
I finally received my set of OEM 408m wheels with sottozeros.
Not the most exciting wheels I've purchased but at least they fit!!!
HRE P101. Akrapovič evolution. H&R. Bell StiR+ Laser Interceptor quad. IND cosmetics. 3M CR50.