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Seriously move on it will be the best for you. Just an update from what I posted earlier. I came home yesterday and she is crying and tells me she feels horrible and doesnt know what to do because the new guy doesnt treat her as well as I did and she wants to break up with him but also doesnt want to hurt his feeling. We talked and I told her how she fucked up and walked out of the room not giving a fuck and went to sleep. Feels fucking amazing when you feel free and the other person wanting you back but you have no more feelings. Like I said it is the best you can do for yourself and I guess you can also call it fucking sweet revenge.
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Op.... While i can't agree with Lios 100% i do know that one thing is true. You stop showing interest in her and she'll start missing your attention. Just lay off initiating any communication with her. Respond to her but be short and to the point, not mean. Even if she wants to hang out; you do that, but you had better be strong enough to keep it friendly and nothing more. Hell, even hang with her parents but don't talk about her at all. Just talk about how great things are in your life. That will get back to her. The more you act like it's not big deal the more she'll realize she made a mistake. But if you hang with her and you have sex with her or kiss her it's over. You can give her a hug like you're giving one to your aunt and you're allowed to let her blow you. NOTHING MORE. You tell her the truth though, that you're not happy about this, but if that's what she wants that's fine with you. But you follow that up with, "i don't know where i'll be in 6 months and can't guarantee i'll be able to go back to the way things were." Also, just because a girl is acting stupid doesn't mean she's not the one or marriage material. If this was true, none of us would be married.
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this guy deserves a medal!
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As other's have said, it sounds like she wants to sow some wild oats for a while, but keep you on the back burner just in case things don't go well. It doesn't sound like she's as serious about you as you are about her. End communication. Move on. She might come crawling back to you in 6 months and you can decide if you want to take her back then. But even if she doesn't, you can hold your head high. |
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In my opinion, you can look at it two ways. Either be the one getting fucked over, or be the one doing the fucking.
If I was in your position, I'd probably bank or invest the $25K in order to prevent me wasting it, and get back on the scene asap. I agree with Litos. Wipe yourself down and go do some damage. And if the opportunity arises where you can rub her face in it, then do so. Because nothing says "I'm over you" more than smashing shots from some blonde sluts tits. |
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07-31-2012, 12:06 PM | #53 |
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Couldn't agree more with everyone else here. The less you care, the more she will want you back. That is exactly what is happening for me right now
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This thread is helpful, some what applicable to me right now, so its good to see some posts that share my point of view.
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LOL wtf? his dad's gf? rofl
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For the win....
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when she comes over for her birthday, get her pregnant.
tell her you love her and adore her for the next 14-16 weeks. then, punch her in the stomach repeatedly..... that will teach her not to fuck with your child like emotions ever again.... |
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Just do you and wait for her to realize she fucked up. At that point, see where you are in your life and judge if it is worth it to continue to be with her (if you are still single.) meanwhile, be respectful and polite about the situation and be cool with her parents.
best advice you will ever get.
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LOLLLLLL
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The moment she removed you off the facebook means she's already slept with another guy and likes him more(atleast temporarily).
And I for a one thing do not tolerate cheating in a relationship when you both are actually serious and have been together for 3years. So even if she comes back and says, "Ohh Aaron, I m sorry. I really missed you! Can we go back to things that was like before". At this moment she is bored with the other guy and wants emotional security from you till she comes across a short fling like above.
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update: She texted me yesterday saying she would really like me to come to her birthday party next week. I am not sure what to say to her...
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But on a serious note. Move on. She will do it again in the future with the next guy she meets that she wants to experience with.
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I still get texts from old bitchy ex's every other day, now that they see I'm doing 923804 times better than their shitty dead-beat bfs they ended up with after I/they left.
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