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      07-30-2012, 02:19 PM   #45
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Seriously move on it will be the best for you. Just an update from what I posted earlier. I came home yesterday and she is crying and tells me she feels horrible and doesnt know what to do because the new guy doesnt treat her as well as I did and she wants to break up with him but also doesnt want to hurt his feeling. We talked and I told her how she fucked up and walked out of the room not giving a fuck and went to sleep. Feels fucking amazing when you feel free and the other person wanting you back but you have no more feelings. Like I said it is the best you can do for yourself and I guess you can also call it fucking sweet revenge.
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      07-30-2012, 03:54 PM   #46
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Seriously move on it will be the best for you. Just an update from what I posted earlier. I came home yesterday and she is crying and tells me she feels horrible and doesnt know what to do because the new guy doesnt treat her as well as I did and she wants to break up with him but also doesnt want to hurt his feeling. We talked and I told her how she fucked up and walked out of the room not giving a fuck and went to sleep. Feels fucking amazing when you feel free and the other person wanting you back but you have no more feelings. Like I said it is the best you can do for yourself and I guess you can also call it fucking sweet revenge.
LOlz thats awesome. Let the games begin. hahah
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admittedly, i have showered with over 100 dudes while in bootcamp.

i think it's "mostly" a stereotype.

i was surprised to realize that your dong is not proportionate to anything else on your body.

you either have a huge dong or you don't - doesn't matter if you're white, black, mexican, phillipino, or asian and it doesn't matter if you have big hands or big feet and it doesn't matter if you're 5'5" or 6'7"......

i won't go into details though.............
It's hard to read that and not imagine that your avatar is what you looked like when showering with 100 dudes.


Op....

While i can't agree with Lios 100% i do know that one thing is true. You stop showing interest in her and she'll start missing your attention. Just lay off initiating any communication with her. Respond to her but be short and to the point, not mean. Even if she wants to hang out; you do that, but you had better be strong enough to keep it friendly and nothing more. Hell, even hang with her parents but don't talk about her at all. Just talk about how great things are in your life. That will get back to her. The more you act like it's not big deal the more she'll realize she made a mistake. But if you hang with her and you have sex with her or kiss her it's over. You can give her a hug like you're giving one to your aunt and you're allowed to let her blow you. NOTHING MORE.

You tell her the truth though, that you're not happy about this, but if that's what she wants that's fine with you. But you follow that up with, "i don't know where i'll be in 6 months and can't guarantee i'll be able to go back to the way things were."

Also, just because a girl is acting stupid doesn't mean she's not the one or marriage material. If this was true, none of us would be married.
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      07-30-2012, 04:44 PM   #48
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It's hard to read that and not imagine that your avatar is what you looked like when showering with 100 dudes.


Op....

While i can't agree with Lios 100% i do know that one thing is true. You stop showing interest in her and she'll start missing your attention. Just lay off initiating any communication with her. Respond to her but be short and to the point, not mean. Even if she wants to hang out; you do that, but you had better be strong enough to keep it friendly and nothing more. Hell, even hang with her parents but don't talk about her at all. Just talk about how great things are in your life. That will get back to her. The more you act like it's not big deal the more she'll realize she made a mistake. But if you hang with her and you have sex with her or kiss her it's over. You can give her a hug like you're giving one to your aunt and you're allowed to let her blow you. NOTHING MORE.

You tell her the truth though, that you're not happy about this, but if that's what she wants that's fine with you. But you follow that up with, "i don't know where i'll be in 6 months and can't guarantee i'll be able to go back to the way things were."

Also, just because a girl is acting stupid doesn't mean she's not the one or marriage material. If this was true, none of us would be married.
Well said and thats what I am trying to do. The girl I was with I told her the exact same things and I was really into her. I really like how much she matured after I told her about those things. She really became like day and night which makes me want her back even more because how much in a good way she changed but I know deep inside I cant trust her not for awhile and maybe never. OP the more you feel bad the worse it gets. It wont change anything if you feel bad. If you feel confident and good and move on theres two options for you, she wants you and notices her mistakes and come back then you can chose to keep her or not. Second option is she doesnt come back and you wont feel bad at all because you already passed all the pain etc. However, one thing you have to be cautious about if she does come back and thats is did she really change and hold a guarantee that she wont do the same thing again? If she comes back dont treat her the same as before but be the you that you have become without her and that will make her want you more because she will have a stupid thought in her mind that the harder she tries the more you will become the you she knew previously.
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      07-30-2012, 05:51 PM   #49
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It's hard to read that and not imagine that your avatar is what you looked like when showering with 100 dudes.
HAHAHA !!!!

touche......
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use those 25K to buy another car.

then chase pussy all day everyday....

show up on the boat with her dad with a smoking hot chick with big tits....

start a thread in a few weeks and tell us how it went....
this guy deserves a medal!
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To preface this about a week ago my gf made all of the stuff on her Facebook private and deleted us from being in a relation ship.
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Come yesterday I was talking to her and we started to talking and she said she needs more time to concentrate on school and would like to break up, however get back together in 6 moths once she graduates.
The above is not indicative of a strong relationship no matter how many years you've been "dating".

As other's have said, it sounds like she wants to sow some wild oats for a while, but keep you on the back burner just in case things don't go well. It doesn't sound like she's as serious about you as you are about her.

End communication. Move on. She might come crawling back to you in 6 months and you can decide if you want to take her back then. But even if she doesn't, you can hold your head high.
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      07-31-2012, 08:59 AM   #52
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In my opinion, you can look at it two ways. Either be the one getting fucked over, or be the one doing the fucking.

If I was in your position, I'd probably bank or invest the $25K in order to prevent me wasting it, and get back on the scene asap. I agree with Litos. Wipe yourself down and go do some damage. And if the opportunity arises where you can rub her face in it, then do so. Because nothing says "I'm over you" more than smashing shots from some blonde sluts tits.
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      07-31-2012, 12:06 PM   #53
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Couldn't agree more with everyone else here. The less you care, the more she will want you back. That is exactly what is happening for me right now
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Bang your dad's G/F, It will solve all your problems...for now.
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LOL wtf? his dad's gf? rofl
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      07-31-2012, 11:30 PM   #57
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-Make reservations to restaurant
-Invite her for birthday dinner at said restaurant.
-Arrive 23 minutes late with a beautiful escort (call girl)
-Casually ask her about the black guy she's been banging at school.
-Enjoy your night with escort.
For the win....
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when she comes over for her birthday, get her pregnant.

tell her you love her and adore her for the next 14-16 weeks.

then, punch her in the stomach repeatedly.....

that will teach her not to fuck with your child like emotions ever again....
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been in a similar situation so I can relate. my advice would be ditch her and focus on you
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Just do you and wait for her to realize she fucked up. At that point, see where you are in your life and judge if it is worth it to continue to be with her (if you are still single.) meanwhile, be respectful and polite about the situation and be cool with her parents.

best advice you will ever get.
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Bang your dad's G/F, It will solve all your problems...for now.
LOLLLLLL
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The moment she removed you off the facebook means she's already slept with another guy and likes him more(atleast temporarily).

And I for a one thing do not tolerate cheating in a relationship when you both are actually serious and have been together for 3years.


So even if she comes back and says, "Ohh Aaron, I m sorry. I really missed you! Can we go back to things that was like before". At this moment she is bored with the other guy and wants emotional security from you till she comes across a short fling like above.
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update: She texted me yesterday saying she would really like me to come to her birthday party next week. I am not sure what to say to her...
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update: She texted me yesterday saying she would really like me to come to her birthday party next week. I am not sure what to say to her...
Tell her she fucked up and that you are gonna give her the 6 months she requested. And then send her a bday card with a picture of what her $25k ring would have looked like and tell her that you will have about $25k to blow over the next 6 months on other girls.

But on a serious note. Move on. She will do it again in the future with the next guy she meets that she wants to experience with.
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I still get texts from old bitchy ex's every other day, now that they see I'm doing 923804 times better than their shitty dead-beat bfs they ended up with after I/they left.

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