M5POST
BMW Garage BMW Meets Register Search Today's Posts Mark Forums Read

Go Back   M5POST - BMW M5 Forum > BIMMERPOST Universal Forums > Off-Topic Discussions Board

Post Reply
 
Thread Tools Search this Thread
      08-07-2012, 03:44 PM   #89
shah269
Major
United_States
315
Rep
1,035
Posts

Drives: 2009
Join Date: Oct 2011
Location: NJ

iTrader: (0)

Oh yeah she's cute no question about that! But an 8?
How about a high 6 maybe 7?
Appreciate 0
      08-07-2012, 04:53 PM   #90
HotIce
Banned
United_States
74
Rep
449
Posts

Drives: 2013 BMW M3
Join Date: May 2010
Location: I'm not telling some creeper where I live!

iTrader: (0)

Quote:
Originally Posted by RedBarron View Post
I know we all go though break ups, I have gone though of my share of girls that I somewhat loved but not entirely (I used to be very cynical about love). However how do deal with a girl you truly loved? I dated this girl for almost 3 years, not super long but I have known her for about 5. Typically we live 2 hours away form each other, at different colleges. But it has never caused issues, I am 26 Gradate school and she is 22 a Microbiology and cell since major, but I am at home for the summer 5 hours away. To preface this about a week ago my gf made all of the stuff on her Facebook private and deleted us from being in a relation ship. Yes getting annoyed over Facebook is very high schoolish but it really bothered me. I talked to her very calmly and told her it was bothering me and why she deleted us from being in a relationship and I felt as if she was hiding something, she got defensive and said no and that she would change it. Come yesterday I was talking to her and we started to talking and she said she needs more time to concentrate on school and would like to break up, however get back together in 6 moths once she graduates.

I told her I would rather work it out and stay together. She did not want to try and I said if we break up I don’t want to see her for her to call or text me ever. I am very good friends with her parents, they invite me over for dinner and go on their boat all the time and call me randomly. I had to return some things to her dad and he said he is really said to see this happen and thought we would get married. He asked me to please talk to her, and promised me that she is not interested in anyone else and would really like us to work it out because we have something special between each other. But I cannot anything out if she is not interested in that. I have not talked to her in two days, but her dad keeps calling me asking me to go on the boat with them and help me do some things.

How have any of you dealt that with that one that got away, or do you think I am being harsh by not wanting to see or contact her at all. I loved this girl with all my heart and saved 25k to buy her to get engaged. I guess I am just so surprised by this, and to sad to lose a person that I so close to and we got along so well with and just truly loved.
The Gym.
Appreciate 0
      08-07-2012, 05:18 PM   #91
IFX
Banned
67
Rep
2,536
Posts

Drives: AW e46M/N54
Join Date: Jan 2009
Location: South Fla.

iTrader: (1)

Quote:
Originally Posted by RedBarron View Post
I always thought it is bad idea to hook up with ex'es? I can easily hook up with her, she told me when we broke up when she comes back I can hit it. I told her I would rather pass.


Thats a good idea!!



You're just hooking up, i didn't say hook up and fall back in love.. lol
Appreciate 0
      08-07-2012, 05:30 PM   #92
BabyrayS2k
Private First Class
BabyrayS2k's Avatar
United_States
22
Rep
175
Posts

Drives: 2007 335i Sedan Sport Package
Join Date: Feb 2011
Location: Birmingham, Alabama

iTrader: (0)

Quote:
Originally Posted by IFX View Post
You're just hooking up, i didn't say hook up and fall back in love.. lol
Easier said than done. Leave her ass alone and move on with your life.
Appreciate 0
      08-07-2012, 05:35 PM   #93
IFX
Banned
67
Rep
2,536
Posts

Drives: AW e46M/N54
Join Date: Jan 2009
Location: South Fla.

iTrader: (1)

Quote:
Originally Posted by BabyrayS2k View Post
Easier said than done. Leave her ass alone and move on with your life.

Meh, I could careless, I know that scenario isn't for everyone though, that's for sure.
Appreciate 0
      08-07-2012, 06:01 PM   #94
kevinbahnz
Captain
kevinbahnz's Avatar
152
Rep
709
Posts

Drives: 2008 335xi sedan
Join Date: Aug 2008
Location: Ma-NC

iTrader: (1)

Quote:
Originally Posted by shah269 View Post
Oh yeah she's cute no question about that! But an 8?
How about a high 6 maybe 7?
solid 5 bro.. after a few beers.
__________________
<img src=http://i189.photobucket.com/albums/z164/kevinbahnz/08-23-2008030.jpg border=0 alt= />
Appreciate 0
      08-07-2012, 06:05 PM   #95
raffyg2388
Private
0
Rep
55
Posts

Drives: e90 328i I6
Join Date: Jun 2012
Location: socal.

iTrader: (0)

Quote:
Originally Posted by BabyrayS2k
Quote:
Originally Posted by IFX View Post
You're just hooking up, i didn't say hook up and fall back in love.. lol
Easier said than done. Leave her ass alone and move on with your life.
+1. its a trap for more depression you pansy.
Appreciate 0
      08-07-2012, 07:58 PM   #96
sensi09
Lieutenant Colonel
30
Rep
1,789
Posts

Drives: .
Join Date: Dec 2010
Location: socal

iTrader: (1)

Quote:
Originally Posted by kevinbahnz View Post
Why does it have to be a black guy? She's a science major. Why not Asian guy??
LOL
Appreciate 0
      08-07-2012, 08:07 PM   #97
sensi09
Lieutenant Colonel
30
Rep
1,789
Posts

Drives: .
Join Date: Dec 2010
Location: socal

iTrader: (1)

Quote:
Originally Posted by HuangYiChao View Post

Update, I told me ex to find a new apt and I am going to terminate the lease. In a way I told her in a nice way to GTFO.
Not sure how you were able to live with your ex for so long and deal with everything. I wouldn't be able to do it.
Appreciate 0
      08-07-2012, 11:56 PM   #98
Small Yellow
Track Addict
Small Yellow's Avatar
Taiwan
110
Rep
813
Posts

Drives: 2010 BMW M3 E92 | 2008 Z4M E86
Join Date: Oct 2009
Location: Orange County, California

iTrader: (0)

Quote:
Originally Posted by sensi09 View Post
Not sure how you were able to live with your ex for so long and deal with everything. I wouldn't be able to do it.
Dude I've been pulling my hair out for the past few months. It isnt that easy to just move out when you will have to pay two months rent as termination fee and loose your deposit. This apt/town home is 2745 a month. So FML
__________________
BMW ///M3 Coupe
Completed November 16, 2009
Received December 29,2009
Appreciate 0
      08-16-2012, 06:48 PM   #99
RedBarron
Lieutenant
United_States
133
Rep
419
Posts

Drives: BMW 440i
Join Date: Sep 2006
Location: Jacksonville, FL

iTrader: (0)

A little update to this.

I talked to her in person, she told me she no longer has feelings for me. We had not seen each other for about a month since she had been busy at school, and I said since we had not seen each other that the reason you feel that way.
She had no desire to try and work things out and just said I have no feelings for you anymore.

She said she still wants to be friends and see each other ocasoinally, I told her I would rather not be friends with her. She said why not we where friends before and we started dating and have many mutual friends then maybe it can happen again. I told her no, I love you and be friends with someone I am in love with, you will just end up hurting me more.
__________________

Current: Porsche Cayman S
Appreciate 0
      08-16-2012, 07:02 PM   #100
kevinbahnz
Captain
kevinbahnz's Avatar
152
Rep
709
Posts

Drives: 2008 335xi sedan
Join Date: Aug 2008
Location: Ma-NC

iTrader: (1)

time to move on brother..take that money and go on a vacation to one of the islands
__________________
<img src=http://i189.photobucket.com/albums/z164/kevinbahnz/08-23-2008030.jpg border=0 alt= />
Appreciate 0
      08-16-2012, 08:29 PM   #101
boymonkey
Lieutenant
Taiwan
38
Rep
530
Posts

Drives: slow
Join Date: Apr 2007
Location: Canada

iTrader: (0)

She looks too much like that actor... I think he was in Bueller. Found the name, Jeffrey Jones.
Appreciate 0
      08-16-2012, 09:24 PM   #102
!JGunz_325
Private
11
Rep
70
Posts

Drives: AW 325i Sport
Join Date: Aug 2011
Location: Miami, FL

iTrader: (0)

Quote:
Originally Posted by RedBarron
Quote:
Originally Posted by NYAWE60 View Post
How come no one has requested pics of the chick yet lol
I'll feed the troll. you can tell she is bad news from this picture....


DSC_5609 by RedBarron009, on Flickr
I'm no expert, but I know a hooker when I see one... And THAT my friend, is a hooker.
Appreciate 0
      08-16-2012, 10:15 PM   #103
bosstones
Lieutenant Colonel
1144
Rep
1,532
Posts

Drives: o_0
Join Date: Mar 2008
Location: Suburbia

iTrader: (0)

Sorry to hear it, man, but you're making the right choice by not being friends with her. Staying friends won't help you get over her. Time to pick up a new hobby or what not and move on with your life.

Oh...and whatever you decide to do, just don't end up in this situation:
http://www.zpost.com/forums/showthread.php?t=730977
__________________
Appreciate 0
      08-16-2012, 10:34 PM   #104
RedBarron
Lieutenant
United_States
133
Rep
419
Posts

Drives: BMW 440i
Join Date: Sep 2006
Location: Jacksonville, FL

iTrader: (0)

Quote:
Originally Posted by !JGunz_325 View Post
I'm no expert, but I know a hooker when I see one... And THAT my friend, is a hooker.
Yes she was a very expensive hooker, and took a lot of my time. At least hookers don't break your heart, ha.

This is the text message she sent me tonight, and I am not going to respond to it.

"Barron I'm sorry but I just can't do this now. You're right I am going into my last semester and I just need to focus on that and just live the college experience for the little bit I can (since I will be mainly having to study) my feelings for you right now are just as friends and I'm sorry it's become that but I'm just not ready to move forward from that. I just need time and I understand If you can't supply that time but until I'm done with school nothing is going to be able to become more than friends. I hope everything works out for you this semester as well and would love to hear about it but understand if you can't do that. "
__________________

Current: Porsche Cayman S
Appreciate 0
      08-16-2012, 11:54 PM   #105
panicos81
Colonel
panicos81's Avatar
Cyprus
210
Rep
2,327
Posts

Drives: a white bmw
Join Date: Aug 2008
Location: Cyprus

iTrader: (2)

Garage List
2010 BMW E92  [8.54]
2007 e90  [0.00]
Quote:
Originally Posted by RedBarron View Post
Yes she was a very expensive hooker, and took a lot of my time. At least hookers don't break your heart, ha.

This is the text message she sent me tonight, and I am not going to respond to it.

"Barron I'm sorry but I just can't do this now. You're right I am going into my last semester and I just need to focus on that and just live the college experience for the little bit I can (since I will be mainly having to study) my feelings for you right now are just as friends and I'm sorry it's become that but I'm just not ready to move forward from that. I just need time and I understand If you can't supply that time but until I'm done with school nothing is going to be able to become more than friends. I hope everything works out for you this semester as well and would love to hear about it but understand if you can't do that. "
other guys..


let her go. enjoy your life. someone new will come when you least expect it and all will be good..
__________________
Appreciate 0
      08-17-2012, 12:22 AM   #106
Tim07e90
Captain
Tim07e90's Avatar
United_States
130
Rep
775
Posts

Drives: 2007 E90 328i
Join Date: Mar 2012
Location: SoCal

iTrader: (4)

Garage List
2007 BMW 328i  [8.50]
Quote:
Originally Posted by panicos81
Quote:
Originally Posted by RedBarron View Post
Yes she was a very expensive hooker, and took a lot of my time. At least hookers don't break your heart, ha.

This is the text message she sent me tonight, and I am not going to respond to it.

"Barron I'm sorry but I just can't do this now. You're right I am going into my last semester and I just need to focus on that and just live the college experience for the little bit I can (since I will be mainly having to study) my feelings for you right now are just as friends and I'm sorry it's become that but I'm just not ready to move forward from that. I just need time and I understand If you can't supply that time but until I'm done with school nothing is going to be able to become more than friends. I hope everything works out for you this semester as well and would love to hear about it but understand if you can't do that. "
other guys..


let her go. enjoy your life. someone new will come when you least expect it and all will be good..
^+1

Agreed, man. Just tell her, "Okay, hope everything works out! See you around." Easier said then done to move on but honestly, there are many more fishes in the sea. She's in her prime age to party and to make it worst...still in college living the life.

Like everyone one else has said, the best fuel to her fire is seeing you do better than her and you genuinely not caring for her anymore. Good look brotha
__________________
Performance Mods: ST Coilovers | R1 Concepts Premier Rotors w/Hawk HPS Pads | ECS Stainless Steel Brake Lines | OEM 219M Wheels | Bridgestone Potenza RE760 | Precision Euro Spacers | AA Race Headers | AFE Race Midpipes | Remus Powersound Quad Exhaust | AA Offroad Tune | RevMotoring Intake Pipe | Cyba Scoops
Appreciate 0
      08-17-2012, 01:23 AM   #107
Foodle
Captain
United_States
26
Rep
770
Posts

Drives: 2011.75 E90 M3
Join Date: Aug 2011
Location: PA

iTrader: (0)

Quote:
Originally Posted by RedBarron View Post
I told her no, I love you and be friends with someone I am in love with, you will just end up hurting me more.
Bad move telling her you still love her. This lets her know she still has influence/power over you. No one who loves you would say/do what she has to you. I know it's hard but you've got to move past her.
Appreciate 0
      08-17-2012, 01:25 AM   #108
Foodle
Captain
United_States
26
Rep
770
Posts

Drives: 2011.75 E90 M3
Join Date: Aug 2011
Location: PA

iTrader: (0)

Quote:
Originally Posted by panicos81 View Post
other guys..
Appreciate 0
      08-17-2012, 01:38 AM   #109
boymonkey
Lieutenant
Taiwan
38
Rep
530
Posts

Drives: slow
Join Date: Apr 2007
Location: Canada

iTrader: (0)

Quote:
Originally Posted by panicos81 View Post
other guys..
Yup, I expected this when you said she started deleting or hiding things on Facebook. She didn't want someone else to know about you.
Appreciate 0
      08-17-2012, 02:06 AM   #110
Small Yellow
Track Addict
Small Yellow's Avatar
Taiwan
110
Rep
813
Posts

Drives: 2010 BMW M3 E92 | 2008 Z4M E86
Join Date: Oct 2009
Location: Orange County, California

iTrader: (0)

Quote:
Originally Posted by boymonkey View Post
Yup, I expected this when you said she started deleting or hiding things on Facebook. She didn't want someone else to know about you.
Woman are so bad at hiding things... its hilarious...
__________________
BMW ///M3 Coupe
Completed November 16, 2009
Received December 29,2009
Appreciate 0
Post Reply

Bookmarks

Thread Tools Search this Thread
Search this Thread:

Advanced Search

Posting Rules
You may not post new threads
You may not post replies
You may not post attachments
You may not edit your posts

BB code is On
Smilies are On
[IMG] code is On
HTML code is Off



All times are GMT -5. The time now is 02:56 PM.




m5post
Powered by vBulletin® Version 3.8.11
Copyright ©2000 - 2024, vBulletin Solutions Inc.
1Addicts.com, BIMMERPOST.com, E90Post.com, F30Post.com, M3Post.com, ZPost.com, 5Post.com, 6Post.com, 7Post.com, XBimmers.com logo and trademark are properties of BIMMERPOST