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Originally Posted by Sara
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Originally Posted by Sedan_Clan
The black ones can be a wild ride.
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Well all three horses are indeed black lol
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Right on! Once you go…….
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Originally Posted by Sara
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Originally Posted by CTinline-six
Haha I think it just means we also crave emotional/mental stimulation in addition to physical.
It's 10x hotter to me to be with someone I've been chasing, or to be with someone who challenges me and gives me shit.
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This!
My mom claims I messed up a really good one. Had a sweet, good looking guy, who did everything for me. Perfect in nearly every way. But he wasn't a challenge, was always available for me. Wanted to see me way more than I wanted to see him. I cut him loose. I just didn't like all the love and affection from him. Smothering.
What the hell is wrong with me? That seems like every woman's dream! I must be crazy not to want that.
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I think you just have to be at a point where you're ready for it. I've let go of a few too; a few who just wanted to love me and were really sweet, attentive women. Fast forward many years and now I'm seeking that which I've given up a handful of times. It's maturity.