Dating - Good/Bad Experiences

[BMWGUYinCO]

Originally Posted by Lady Jane

And I make a REAL poutine with curd cheese. Not that mozzarella crap look-alike.

Mmmmmmmm

[RMachuca3d]

Originally Posted by Lady Jane

Your grandfather was a Conservative? A+++ in my books. ( Ooops, no politics. I don't want to be in the penalty box again.)

And I make a REAL poutine with curd cheese. Not that mozzarella crap look-alike.

As an ex-quebeckiztaner..... no more talk of poutine, making me hungry

[fiveohwblow]

Originally Posted by Lady Jane

Zamboni, Tim Bits and hockey stick? You're my hero!

Dammit now I want a double double, roll up the rim contest and win a dozen timbits. Looks like I am headed back to snow country

[UncleWede]

Not EVERY divorce turns out the way you all describe it. I saw my ex from 20+ years ago a few weeks back.
Her: I'm not allowed by work to give you a hug"
Me: "GTFOH, give me a hug"

[rebekahb]

Originally Posted by Rich150001

Update: She ended up agreeing to letting me keep my car, but then gave me the following marriage ultimatum?

1) Show up with ring/proposal
2) Upon engagement, Start a joint account immediately with me funding it 60k to her 20k to be used for IVF and/or other fertility services (she's 38) with the leftover going towards a house.
3) Upon engagement, start another joint account where both our incomes go into

I was contemplating doing it due to believing her intentions, and we went and bought a ring (which I have time to refund). In addition, my parents demanded an apology for a fight they previously had (both parties faults) or else they would disown me, take me off will, not see me anymore if i went through with it. She would not apologize but agreed to start fresh. Then when she started derogatory name calling me over two weeks, I realized we just weren't ready and reluctantly backed out at the last minute...so much stress!

Run, run as fast as you can.

[RMachuca3d]

Originally Posted by Rich150001

Update: She ended up agreeing to letting me keep my car, but then gave me the following marriage ultimatum?

1) Show up with ring/proposal
2) Upon engagement, Start a joint account immediately with me funding it 60k to her 20k to be used for IVF and/or other fertility services (she's 38) with the leftover going towards a house.
3) Upon engagement, start another joint account where both our incomes go into

I was contemplating doing it due to believing her intentions, and we went and bought a ring (which I have time to refund). In addition, my parents demanded an apology for a fight they previously had (both parties faults) or else they would disown me, take me off will, not see me anymore if i went through with it. She would not apologize but agreed to start fresh which my parents aren't onboard for. Then when she started derogatory name calling me over two weeks, I realized we just weren't ready and reluctantly backed out at the last minute...so much stress!

move on. Either your both toxic to eachother or she's psycho, doesnt matter which way you split it (pun intended ), its not meant to be.

[vreihen16]

Originally Posted by rebekahb

Run, run as fast as you can.

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[MKSixer]

Originally Posted by Rich150001

Update: She ended up agreeing to letting me keep my car, but then gave me the following marriage ultimatum?

1) Show up with ring/proposal
2) Upon engagement, Start a joint account immediately with me funding it 60k to her 20k to be used for IVF and/or other fertility services (she's 38) with the leftover going towards a house.
3) Upon engagement, start another joint account where both our incomes go into

I was contemplating doing it due to believing her intentions, and we went and bought a ring (which I have time to refund). In addition, my parents demanded an apology for a fight they previously had (both parties faults) or else they would disown me, take me off will, not see me anymore if i went through with it. She would not apologize but agreed to start fresh which my parents aren't onboard for. Then when she started derogatory name calling me over two weeks, I realized we just weren't ready and reluctantly backed out at the last minute...so much stress!

Originally Posted by rebekahb

Run, run as fast as you can.

Originally Posted by RMachuca3d

move on. Either your both toxic to eachother or she's psycho, doesnt matter which way you split it (pun intended ), its not meant to be.

Originally Posted by vreihen16

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The committee has spoken.

Put on your track shoes and gtfo of there. She is a harridan. A harpy. A succubus.

Run. Run. Run.

[Rich150001]

Originally Posted by MKSixer

The committee has spoken.

Put on your track shoes and gtfo of there. She is a harridan. A harpy. A succubus.

Run. Run. Run.

Thanks and great choice of words =D. I think maybe I was under a spell by her extreme beauty based on what all my friends/family have told me looking in externally. Time to get back out there.

[dinonz]

Originally Posted by Rich150001

Update: She ended up agreeing to letting me keep my car, but then gave me the following marriage ultimatum?

1) Show up with ring/proposal
2) Upon engagement, Start a joint account immediately with me funding it 60k to her 20k to be used for IVF and/or other fertility services (she's 38) with the leftover going towards a house.
3) Upon engagement, start another joint account where both our incomes go into

I was contemplating doing it due to believing her intentions, and we went and bought a ring (which I have time to refund). In addition, my parents demanded an apology for a fight they previously had (both parties faults) or else they would disown me, take me off will, not see me anymore if i went through with it. She would not apologize but agreed to start fresh which my parents aren't onboard for. Then when she started derogatory name calling me over two weeks, I realized we just weren't ready and reluctantly backed out at the last minute...so much stress!

She must have been some kind of amazing to even temp you, but no - just no.

[Turkish Pickle]

Originally Posted by Rich150001

Update: She ended up agreeing to letting me keep my car, but then gave me the following marriage ultimatum?

1) Show up with ring/proposal
2) Upon engagement, Start a joint account immediately with me funding it 60k to her 20k to be used for IVF and/or other fertility services (she's 38) with the leftover going towards a house.
3) Upon engagement, start another joint account where both our incomes go into

I was contemplating doing it due to believing her intentions, and we went and bought a ring (which I have time to refund). In addition, my parents demanded an apology for a fight they previously had (both parties faults) or else they would disown me, take me off will, not see me anymore if i went through with it. She would not apologize but agreed to start fresh which my parents aren't onboard for. Then when she started derogatory name calling me over two weeks, I realized we just weren't ready and reluctantly backed out at the last minute...so much stress!

Please, do not do this.

I can send you my wire instructions if you want to give away $20k to have kids:

1- I am 22, technically still a young(ish) kid
2- Keep your car, at most I'd ask you if I can drive it every now and then
3- No need for a joint account
4- Men's engagement rings are cheaper than women's
5- Your parents would probably like me. They might not like that you're adopting a 22yo dude, and that I'd be your fiancee too, but that's okay I'm a reasonable man
6- I'm a good wingman
7- I can chip in about $30-35k for a house, $70k down for a house will get us a great garage. We can work on our cars together

[longm1985]

Originally Posted by Joekerr

I'm curious - can't say I agree with the lifestyle either, but that aside, do you bring these other people home or always go to their place? Specifically, just wondering whether the 9 year old you have knows what is going on and affecting him / her? Wouldn't it be odd from a kid's point of view? I don't know - maybe they just think there are a lot of friends over all the time for breakfast and that.

I don't think he really knows or cares to know at this point. Will it be odd if he does figure it out someday? Idk, we're his main example for married couples. Anyway, there's no set YOU HAVE TO DO THIS AWAY FROM HOME kind of thing. We tend to all get along just fine. All parties are aware and consenting, so this doesn't harm anyone.

[Tambohamilton]

Originally Posted by Rich150001

Update: She ended up agreeing to letting me keep my car, but then gave me the following marriage ultimatum?

1) Show up with ring/proposal
2) Upon engagement, Start a joint account immediately with me funding it 60k to her 20k to be used for IVF and/or other fertility services (she's 38) with the leftover going towards a house.
3) Upon engagement, start another joint account where both our incomes go into

I was contemplating doing it due to believing her intentions, and we went and bought a ring (which I have time to refund). In addition, my parents demanded an apology for a fight they previously had (both parties faults) or else they would disown me, take me off will, not see me anymore if i went through with it. She would not apologize but agreed to start fresh which my parents aren't onboard for. Then when she started derogatory name calling me over two weeks, I realized we just weren't ready and reluctantly backed out at the last minute...so much stress!

Holy crap, run away, don't look back!!!

[Dang3r]

Originally Posted by Rich150001

Update: She ended up agreeing to letting me keep my car, but then gave me the following marriage ultimatum?

1) Show up with ring/proposal
2) Upon engagement, Start a joint account immediately with me funding it 60k to her 20k to be used for IVF and/or other fertility services (she's 38) with the leftover going towards a house.
3) Upon engagement, start another joint account where both our incomes go into

I was contemplating doing it due to believing her intentions, and we went and bought a ring (which I have time to refund). In addition, my parents demanded an apology for a fight they previously had (both parties faults) or else they would disown me, take me off will, not see me anymore if i went through with it. She would not apologize but agreed to start fresh which my parents aren't onboard for. Then when she started derogatory name calling me over two weeks, I realized we just weren't ready and reluctantly backed out at the last minute...so much stress!

This reminds me to a TLC series "Wedding within 90 days" or such title
Even this is really flat stuff and seems sometimes very arranged, those guys are priceless sometimes.
So as read before: RUN!

[King Rudi]

Originally Posted by Rich150001

Update: She ended up agreeing to letting me keep my car, but then gave me the following marriage ultimatum?

1) Show up with ring/proposal
2) Upon engagement, Start a joint account immediately with me funding it 60k to her 20k to be used for IVF and/or other fertility services (she's 38) with the leftover going towards a house.
3) Upon engagement, start another joint account where both our incomes go into

I was contemplating doing it due to believing her intentions, and we went and bought a ring (which I have time to refund). In addition, my parents demanded an apology for a fight they previously had (both parties faults) or else they would disown me, take me off will, not see me anymore if i went through with it. She would not apologize but agreed to start fresh which my parents aren't onboard for. Then when she started derogatory name calling me over two weeks, I realized we just weren't ready and reluctantly backed out at the last minute...so much stress!

My bullshit issues suddenly hear tire screeching. The thread made a hairpin turn in a single post. It also seems like the dating thread committee all agrees in unison.

The ground should be on fire behind you.

......however, I've been in a toxic relationship before and understand how hard they are to make yourself get out of. I'm fearful for you of this situation. This sounds extremely dangerous.

Keep us posted.....and buyers remorse that damn ring and take it back.

[nyalpine90]

Originally Posted by Rich150001

Update: She ended up agreeing to letting me keep my car, but then gave me the following marriage ultimatum?

1) Show up with ring/proposal
2) Upon engagement, Start a joint account immediately with me funding it 60k to her 20k to be used for IVF and/or other fertility services (she's 38) with the leftover going towards a house.
3) Upon engagement, start another joint account where both our incomes go into

I was contemplating doing it due to believing her intentions, and we went and bought a ring (which I have time to refund). In addition, my parents demanded an apology for a fight they previously had (both parties faults) or else they would disown me, take me off will, not see me anymore if i went through with it. She would not apologize but agreed to start fresh which my parents aren't onboard for. Then when she started derogatory name calling me over two weeks, I realized we just weren't ready and reluctantly backed out at the last minute...so much stress!

dont look back
change your name, move to a different state!
if divorce ever comes to play, she will leave you homeless.

[King Rudi]

Originally Posted by Rich150001

I guess to add more specificity when I said I backed out at the last minute, I ended things a few days ago. I'm getting a full refund on the ring today, keeping my 60k, and getting out of this relatively unscathed with the exception of some emotional damage/wasted time which will take some time to recover. There are a few more layers of the situation but agree with everyone it's gotten to the point of needing to pull the plug.

Well done. Next step is the most difficult, sustainability. Walking away is a good first step in the right direction. Not turning around and going back is more difficult. I speak from experience.

[MKSixer]

Originally Posted by King Rudi

My bullshit issues suddenly hear tire screeching. The thread made a hairpin turn in a single post. It also seems like the dating thread committee all agrees in unison.

The ground should be on fire behind you.

......however, I've been in a toxic relationship before and understand how hard they are to make yourself get out of. I'm fearful for you of this situation. This sounds extremely dangerous.

Keep us posted.....and buyers remorse that damn ring and take it back.

Originally Posted by nyalpine90

dont look back
change your name, move to a different state!
if divorce ever comes to play, she will leave you homeless.

Originally Posted by Rich150001

I guess to add more specificity when I said I backed out at the last minute, I ended things a few days ago. I'm getting a full refund on the ring today, keeping my 60k, and getting out of this relatively unscathed with the exception of some emotional damage/wasted time which will take some time to recover. There are a few more layers of the situation but agree with everyone it's gotten to the point of needing to pull the plug.

Well done, OP.

Go buy a lottery ticket.

[MKSixer]

Originally Posted by Rich150001

Or Bitcoin =D

On the dip, my friend.

[nyalpine90]

that is "SPARTA Kick"

[Tambohamilton]

Originally Posted by nyalpine90

that is "SPARTA Kick"

Lena Headey in 300

[Joekerr]

Originally Posted by Lady Jane

And speaking of dating, I had a nightmare...


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I dunno, he looks like a bit of a dick. Maybe has a nice personality though.