Dating - Good/Bad Experiences

CTinline-six · 02-20-2019, 10:11 AM

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Originally Posted by Chihuahua

That's an immature and selfish response. Don't do this.

Agreed. A first date is usually hard to 100% gauge a person's personality at least in my experience. First dates are good for getting a general idea about attraction, and if the person is mentally insane or not.

The second and third date is usually where the personality comes out.

Honestly, if you were attracted to her otherwise, seems like a silly thing to cut someone off for. A lot of people complain about their jobs as a conversation that others can relate to. If the entire date consisted of that and nothing else, maybe she was nervous or really is just that boring.

Turkish Pickle · 02-20-2019, 11:07 AM

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Originally Posted by CTinline-six

Sounds like you need to head over to the Viagra experience thread.

hopefully you don't frequent that thread

aozer · 02-20-2019, 01:06 PM

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Originally Posted by Chihuahua

That's an immature and selfish response. Don't do this.

We went on two dates. I’m not obligated to her in any way.

Do you take someone on a second date so that you can ‘break up’ with them if you didn’t like the first date? What a fuckin joke.

upstatedoc · 02-20-2019, 01:14 PM

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Originally Posted by Joekerr

How's ponytails?

no ponytails, short brunette hair, green eyes. pay attention

G35POPPEDMYCHERRY · 02-20-2019, 01:28 PM

seinfeld has already answered most questions a long time ago...

Turkish Pickle · 02-20-2019, 02:10 PM

meeting the girl i wanted to ghost in an hour, is there anything specific you want me to say/do?

bimmette · 02-20-2019, 02:17 PM

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Originally Posted by Bayerische Motoren Werke

meeting the girl i wanted to ghost in an hour, is there anything specific you want me to say/do?

Keep it short and just say hey, you're a nice person so didn't wanna ghost you but I don't think it's gonna work out because... blah blah blah.

Joekerr · 02-20-2019, 02:20 PM

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Originally Posted by Bayerische Motoren Werke

meeting the girl i wanted to ghost in an hour, is there anything specific you want me to say/do?

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Originally Posted by bimmette

Keep it short and just say hey, you're a nice person so didn't wanna ghost you but I don't think it's gonna work out because... blah blah blah.

Depends...can you find / pull off a Casper the friendly ghost costume in an hour?

Turkish Pickle · 02-20-2019, 02:21 PM

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Originally Posted by bimmette

Keep it short and just say hey, you're a nice person so didn't wanna ghost you but I don't think it's gonna work out because... blah blah blah.

that is the logical but also not-fun alternative

it's what i had in mind

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Originally Posted by Joekerr

Depends...can you find / pull off a Casper the friendly ghost costume in an hour?

uh, sure? why would i need to do this?

King Rudi · 02-20-2019, 02:30 PM

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Originally Posted by Bayerische Motoren Werke

meeting the girl i wanted to ghost in an hour, is there anything specific you want me to say/do?

Explain that you don't really see this going anywhere. Leave an uncomfortable silence for no longer than 60 seconds. Then break your own uncomfortable silence with "I must say I will miss the sex" gauge her reaction. Based on her reaction, body language and facial expression, you're next response needs to be: (if she isn't down) I sincerely wish you the best followed by a hug or (if she seems remotely interested) something to the affect of "how about it then", "wanna get out of here and go back to my place for a quick one" or "perhaps we should have one last go."

Turkish Pickle · 02-20-2019, 02:33 PM

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Originally Posted by Now_Rudi

Explain that you don't really see this going anywhere. Leave an uncomfortable silence for no longer than 60 seconds. Then break your own uncomfortable silence with "I must say I will miss the sex" gauge her reaction. Based on her reaction, body language and facial expression, you're next response needs to be: (if she isn't down) I sincerely wish you the best followed by a hug or (if she seems remotely interested) something to the affect of "how about it then", "wanna get out of here and go back to my place for a quick one" or "perhaps we should have one last go."

THIS is why i come here

Joekerr · 02-20-2019, 02:35 PM

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Originally Posted by Joekerr

Depends...can you find / pull off a Casper the friendly ghost costume in an hour?

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Originally Posted by Bayerische Motoren Werke

uh, sure? why would i need to do this?

Oh, just because you were going to ghost her, and so it is penance for your attempted sin. Plus, it would be hilarious to see a guy in a Casper ghost costume telling you he didn't want to ghost you, so he's telling you in person.

At least it is funny in my mind.

King Rudi · 02-20-2019, 02:36 PM

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Originally Posted by Bayerische Motoren Werke

THIS is why i come here

I got you mang!

upstatedoc · 02-20-2019, 02:40 PM

just in case pat her down for weapons before you break the news

UncleWede · 02-20-2019, 02:50 PM

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Originally Posted by Joekerr

Oh, just because you were going to ghost her, and so it is penance for your attempted sin. Plus, it would be hilarious to see a guy in a Casper ghost costume telling you he didn't want to ghost you, so he's telling you in person.

At least it is funny in my mind.

I laughed. Being John Malkovitch?

Joekerr · 02-20-2019, 02:55 PM

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Originally Posted by UncleWede

I laughed. Being John Malkovitch?

Had to look him up. Still not sure I understand. So probably not?

kinuts · 02-20-2019, 03:07 PM

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Originally Posted by Bayerische Motoren Werke

meeting the girl i wanted to ghost in an hour, is there anything specific you want me to say/do?

Just been reading this thread for a few hours, loving it

still new to this forum though I have been lurking in the background for several weeks...
My advice here would be call her and tell her you don't wanna keep it up as its heading no where. She probably wont be amused that she took 2-3 hours getting ready for the date then you go there and tell her you're no longer interested. Save her the time and effort of getting all dolled up for rejection

MKSixer · 02-20-2019, 03:31 PM

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Originally Posted by Joekerr

Depends...can you find / pull off a Casper the friendly ghost costume in an hour?

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Originally Posted by Bayerische Motoren Werke

that is the logical but also not-fun alternative

it's what i had in mind

uh, sure? why would i need to do this?

Do this. It would be SOLID GOLD. Get her to meet you at a coffee shop and walk by her, revealing yourself, without breaking stride, then walk out the door.

She Just Got Ghosted.

Do it. Do it. Do it.

Bonus points for adding sound effects!!

Germanauto · 02-20-2019, 03:52 PM

Went out with some girl last weekend but didn't really feel inspired. She's well educated and well spoken BUT [as shallow as this sounds] I feel I could do better in the looks department. She's cute but I expect more.

Gotta let her down gently now, don't wanna be an even bigger douche by ghosting. Will prob be meeting with someone else this weekend.

King Rudi · 02-20-2019, 04:01 PM

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Originally Posted by Germanauto

Went out with some girl last weekend but didn't really feel inspired. She's well educated and well spoken BUT [as shallow as this sounds] I feel I could do better in the looks department. She's cute but I expect more.

Gotta let her down gently now, don't wanna be an even bigger douche by ghosting. Will prob be meeting with someone else this weekend.

I feel like we need pictures now....just to be sure of providing sound advice.

MKSixer · 02-20-2019, 04:01 PM

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Originally Posted by Now_Rudi

I feel like we need pictures now....just to be sure of providing sound advice.

Sometimes it worries me that we think so much alike...

King Rudi · 02-20-2019, 04:13 PM

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Originally Posted by MKSixer

Sometimes it worries me that we think so much alike...

Indeed good sir.....indeed....

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